Studying abroad can often evoke feelings of intimidation and anxiety, yet for Kevin Murphy, a senior public relations major at Eastern Kentucky University (EKU), his semester in Japan became a transformative experience, allowing him to find a second home across the globe.
Embracing Japanese Culture
Murphy participated in a summer study abroad program through the Kentucky Institute for International Studies (KIIS). His curriculum included various classes, notably a Japanese language course, which deepened his appreciation for the culture. “Japan has always captured my imagination and sparked my creativity,” Murphy shared. “I knew I wanted to study abroad, and Japan was my top choice. It felt like the most cost-effective way to travel internationally.”
Katie Samuel, the assistant director of EKU’s education abroad program, elaborated on the opportunities available through such programs. “Students can not only travel but also immerse themselves in different cultures while taking classes. They can pursue internships or engage in service learning abroad,” she explained.
A Culture Shock
Murphy experienced a significant cultural shift upon arriving in Japan. Accustomed to the lively and often boisterous nature of American society, he was surprised by the contrasting demeanor of the Japanese public. “In Japan, it’s super quiet, and manners are crucial,” he noted. “I went to Shibuya City, often compared to Times Square in Tokyo, and found it oddly quiet. In an American city, people would be loud and chaotic, but in Japan, you hardly felt the crowd, despite the sheer number of people.”
Building Connections with a Host Family
During his stay, Murphy lived with a host family, which provided him with a nurturing environment that fostered a sense of belonging. He developed a deep bond with them, finding comfort and hospitality during his time abroad. “I loved my host family; we had such a great connection. They treated me with immense kindness,” Murphy recounted. “My host mom would drive me to the train station whenever I needed to go, and my host dad frequently prepared home-cooked meals. They were always there to support me.”
A host family, as defined in exchange programs, provides students with shelter, food, and emotional support. Murphy’s experience highlights the significance of this arrangement, making his trip to Japan all the more rewarding.
“They made me feel so welcome,” he expressed. “Not only was I surrounded by my host family’s love and support, but they often had their cousins over, who treated me with the same kindness. We shared many joyful moments, attending festivals and enjoying dinner together each night.”
A Heartfelt Farewell
As his time in Japan drew to a close, Murphy felt a sense of sadness about leaving his host family. In a gesture of appreciation, he painted a picture of their pets on a Kentucky horse farm as a gift. “My host dad loved it. He was so excited that he built a frame for it and hung it up immediately,” Murphy said, reflecting on the bond he had formed.
Encouragement for Future Students
Murphy urges any students contemplating studying abroad to take the leap. “Even if it seems intimidating or scary due to cultural differences and being away from family, I still recommend it,” he said. “There are numerous programs and scholarships available that can help you reach your destination. You’ll gain a life-changing experience and discover something you truly enjoy.”
Maintaining the connection with his host family remains important to Murphy. He regularly communicates with them via Zoom, cherishing their ongoing relationship. “They spoiled me rotten,” he said with a smile. “I’m so grateful that they were excited to have me in their home.”
Opportunities for EKU Students
For students interested in studying abroad, EKU offers resources through the Education Abroad office. Interested individuals can schedule appointments or attend general information sessions held every Friday at 3 p.m. in the John Grant Crabbe Library. These sessions provide valuable insights into the various options available for studying abroad.
Conclusion
Kevin Murphy’s experience in Japan exemplifies the profound impact of studying abroad. Through cultural immersion and the warmth of a host family, he not only enriched his academic journey but also established lasting relationships and gained a broader worldview. As more students embark on similar adventures, they too may find unexpected homes and lifelong connections in foreign lands.
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